I did a little lurking here and you seem like a sensible group so I registered so I could post a thread. I am a nondancer, don't want to learn, will most likely be bad anyway. My wife has been ballroom dancing for about a year now and she also would not want me to learn dancing. She now dances about five to six times a week and I believe she's pretty good at it. My problem is that all of this dancing is upsetting me so much that we are contemplating breaking up our forty years of marriage. We both love each other and have no other problems. I don't feel I am jealous and I trust her, so why is it upsetting me so. I have tried to analyze my thoughts and I think it has something to do with her dressing up and dancing with other men while I'm home waiting. Maybe it's because I feel like it's just not the right thing for a wife to do. If she would cut back to twice a week I think I would be okay but then she would probably be unhappy about it. Please help if you can as I do want to save our marriage. Thanks.