Would you dance with leads or follow that ignored you and did not want to dance with you when you were either not very good yet or were new to the social scenes hence they did not know whether you were good or not. I have noticed that some people (men AND women) tend to not ask and/or reject dance invitations often unkindly from the people who are not very good or who they are not too sure whether the person is 'good enough' for them. Now as these dancers becomes better (well some of them anyway) or 'prove' themself good these leads/follows all of a sudden becomes rather friendly and ask them to dance all the time. The thing is these snobbish leads/follows tend to be rather good and they are very picky on who they want to dance with. However, they can give you very enjoyable dances due to their skill. On the other hand, one can still feel a bit of resentment on how these ppl used to treat oneself previously. What would you do ?