Ok guys, it's been a while but I have a new dilema. It's something I can't really talk to people about face to face as it is a bit embarrassing. Men with erections during close embrace Tango. Especially if you are a very short girl dancing with a tall man. Now, let me make clear, I'm sure it isn't anything personal and having a woman pressed up against you is often going to trigger a stirring (especially in younger guys). how do you deal with it? I have always just tried to dance on through and ignore it, if it is pressed up I try to move my body off it and carry on as if I didn't notice. Recently though a friend told me that she had done this and thought it was fine, but the guy apparently thought that she carried on dancing with him because she was "showing her approval" and came on to her as they left the venue. To dance or not to dance? That is the question. A male friend (who couldn't help me out because he's not a dancer) of mine reckoned there is some kind of underpants that can keep things under control or at least undetectacle. he may have been making it up since we were pissed at the time. I hope this isn't too racey for the mods! Cheers for your help. PS I'm a girl! A good RC girl! I've no idea the mechanics of this stuff!